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It why love each other to get along easily is difficult to why love each other to get along easily clairvoyant and middleaged person " marital crisis "

Someone says, marriage is domestic foundation. Happen when the mainstay of hold together marriage when tilting, the divorce became a kind of very natural choice.
To both sides of husband and wife character, divorce all along is not a relaxed topic. Because be in the marriage of a failure, calculate without which one party going up is real winner.
In recent years, the issue that middleaged person tall divorce leads is increasingly outstanding. It is with area of Nanchang city west lake exemple, according to the marriage of this area the management that register is in statistic, one year whole area had divorce of many pairs of 700 husband and wife last year, there are many pairs 500 first half of the year this year, show ascendant trend. In the crowd that divorces nearly two years in west lake area, divorce rate is top is middleaged person, occupy 50 % ; It is young next, occupy 35 % ; It is old people again, occupy 15 % . "Marital crisis " had made the hidden trouble that affects happiness of front courtyard of middleaged other people.

One, the person arrives middleaged, why to divorce much

If have the middleaged man that a career has, he does not smoke, do not drink, not random beautiful money, like to accompany a madam to watch TV in the home in the evening. Is this the good man figure of the standard in feminine heart? The likelihood was past, may not is now.
As social development, the standard of good man in feminine heart also is in produce change ceaselessly. The wife perhaps thinks the husband is too depressing in the home, devoid sense of humor. The wife blames a few for this sometimes, the husband often aflame with passion: I did not go out fool around is already enough good, you still blame me.
Center of rehabilitation of manage of Jiangxi save worry, Jiangxi saves Chen Xian of doctor of bughouse vice director to give birth to an analysis to say, this trivial example explains the mental pursuit between the men and women is different above, the key of the problem is being communicated at wanting to strengthen between husband and wife. Between middleaged husband and wife, flatter oneself understands each other very. Actually otherwise. Affection communication not free, be the main reason that marital crisis appears between middleaged husband and wife. Besides, psychological unbalance is another main reason. Read two paragraphs of very classical conversations first:
A, wife: "Husband, I burned a fish today, you like to eat. "
The husband: "Chili is put much, salt is put little. How do you return a responsibility? Marry a few years, connect a fish to be done bad. "
B, wife: "Husband, I burned a fish today, you like to eat. "
The husband: "Be delicious! Have progress! If chili is again a bit less, salt is again bit more, more delicious. "   is to have a fish likewise, why is the word that the man speaks out different?
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